Excessive sincerity is treated as weakness!

Excessive sincerity is treated as weakness!
Don't agree?
Khandani, Insaniyat (Humanity),...... Great, but with whom?
We people, who live in a much closed society, are taught since childhood to share. This is also very good. Share your portion with others, but check does that other person deserve?
There is difference between “Smarpan”, “Tyag” & “Sahyog” (surrender, Give up, support). Sahyog is the correct path.

Most of us liked the movie “Lage Raho Munnabhai...”
It has shown both the angles, he beats a person after getting a hit on second time. Because Gandhiji had not told what to do if a person hits on second time also.

I have faced that people misuse our courteous approach and we are taken for granted.
"One should be careful enough, so that others should not exploit him"
This sounds contradictory about me. People who know me personally, they will be surprised. I don't want others to go through the bad experiences, betrayals, treachery, which I had.

Always make sure that you are able to put forward your point. You also be careful that “you do not do anything which you do not like to happen with you.”

आदर्श पात्र से कम स्तर का कुछ भी स्वीकार्य नहीं हो सकता!

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